hello everyone I have returned! it is so good to be back. There is so much to talk about and share with you all.my health hasnt been good I have had a lot of nerve pain it, has been absoluetly awful , I would never wish that on my worse enermy , but I dont really have enemies. I do have a nasty selfish ex-husband and just as nasty inlaws. I had been married to Robert Checksfield for thirty-seven years when the foolish man decided that he no longer wanted to live like man and wife, but that is ok with me. He became obsessed with the taxi controller Jean Piilgrim at his work ,I have named her on the divorse papers-She was a vile woman not very popular Bob wasn’t listening to any warnings from anyone. it was sad watching him making a fool of himself. His older sister was enjoying every bit of it but so was I, she said that my marriage wasnt a proper marriage. I thought that his sister was very nasty for saying something so awful I had always taken my marriage vows seriously and had always cared for Robert.His sister rang me and said in a very hostilevoice that Robret wasn’t coming back to me she had difficulty concealing her joy, she didn’t say that she was sorry , I was very ill at the time but I knew that it was better for me to be on my own then with a nasty selfish man. It was awful to find myself on the scrap heap at 59 years. I knew that it wasnt the end of the world i would find someone else to love and care for me. I am a very positive person . Robert’s behaviour was appaling he wouldnt let me sleep in my bed I ended up sleeping on the sofa and to top it all one night as I got into bed he jumped out of bed saying that he couldnt take anymore, it was four in the morning I thought that he had gone into the lounge to watch the telly but he had driven off in his car. He was missing all day he came back later in the evening. Thirty seven years of marriage was dying before my very eyes and there seem nothing that I could do about it. I tried so hard to save my marriage but it was all in vain , I watched my marriage pass its sellby date , it was like watching the life flow out of something that could not be resuscited my broken vows were well and truely gone. Robert was adament that he didnt want to be married to me any more,the sad thing is his family knew about him leaving me long before I did .I always knew that he would not be there for me if I had become ill how right I was . I believe in karma, and none of them will come to any good. Robert’s older sister should have done more to save her brothers broken marriage.Robert took jean pilgrim to his sister house . I ask a friend to ring Robert’s sister to say that she was robert’s girl friend his sister was calling her love it was “yes love no love he wont go back to his wife” , I thought to my self that I have been married to Robert for thirty seven years and you have never been pleasant to me yet you are calliny someone that you don’t even know love. Robert’s friend David Grist said that Robert was the most selfish man he has ever met am beginning to think that David is so right, David went on to say that Robert was achavenist pig and I should leave Robert and start a new life . I will rise I have found love at last I am in a relationship with a lovely man , he is kind , caring, intelligent and absolutely wonderful to have around . we have talked about marriage, I wouldn’t rule it out as would like to feel that I belong its good to feel that you are joined by god’s love and I say why not get married yes why not. I will rise , I am rising high .Dorothy maude
hello everyone I have returned!, so nice to be back. I have been away for a long time. There’s so much to talk about I am still not fixed but I do hope that I am on the mend.
Dec 09
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